Lyrics
[INTRO — SPOKEN]
My mama told me
love ain’t luck.
You can sit at the table all night long
and still lose everything
betting on the wrong somebody.
Yeah...
Deal.
[VERSE 1]
He walked in like a winning hand,
boots dusty from another town,
Had that kind of smile that makes a woman
lay her good sense down.
He said,
“Baby, I ain't like the others,”
and I almost bought that lie,
But a woman learns the difference
between a promise and a pair of dice.
I watched his eyes,
I watched his hands,
I watched the way he played,
'Cause the devil don't always cheat you—
sometimes he lets you win a little first
so you'll stay.
[PRE-CHORUS]
I’ve lost enough to know the rules,
I’ve paid enough to learn:
Every pretty hand ain't lucky,
and every fire ain't meant to burn.
[CHORUS]
You better know when to hold up,
know when to let go,
Know when the table ain't worth
one more piece of your soul.
Know when to stand tall,
know when the deal's done,
Know when you're betting on forever
with somebody playing for fun.
I don't chase what don't choose me,
I don't beg a man to stay.
Baby, love ain't about winning—
Sometimes the winning move
is walking away.
[POST-CHORUS]
Walk away...
walk away...
Keep your heart, keep your pride,
leave the losing hand behind.
Walk away...
[VERSE 2]
I used to think a loyal woman
could turn a joker into a king,
Thought if I loved a little harder
I could change damn near anything.
But diamonds don't make promises,
and hearts don't guarantee
that the one sitting across from you
is playing honestly.
So I gathered up my dignity,
put my lipstick in my bag,
Left him sitting with the consequences
of every little lie he had.
He called my name—
I never turned around.
Funny how a woman looks like money
when she finally knows her value now.
[PRE-CHORUS]
I’ve lost enough to know the rules,
I’ve cried enough to learn:
When somebody keeps on showing you
who they are—
believe them on the first turn.
[CHORUS]
You better know when to hold up,
know when to let go,
Know when the table ain't worth
one more piece of your soul.
Know when to stand tall,
know when the deal's done,
Know when you're betting on forever
with somebody playing for fun.
I don't chase what don't choose me,
I don't beg a man to stay.
Baby, love ain't about winning—
Sometimes the winning move
is walking away.
[BREAKDOWN — SPOKEN/SUNG]
Listen...
A gambler watches everybody else.
A wise woman
watches herself.
How much am I giving?
How much is this costing me?
How much of me
am I losing
trying to win you?
Mmm.
That's when I cashed out.
[BRIDGE — BUILD]
Keep the flowers.
Keep the lies.
Keep those two-in-the-morning
“baby, please” alibis.
Keep your whiskey.
Keep your games.
I ain't putting good money
on a man who won't change.
My heart ain't a casino.
My love ain't a loan.
And I would rather leave empty-handed
than lose myself
trying to bring somebody home.
[BIG FINAL CHORUS]
So know when to hold up,
know when to let go,
Know when your heart already knows
what your mind don't wanna know.
Know when to stand tall,
know when you've had enough,
Know when what you're calling devotion
is just you refusing to give up.
I don't chase what don't choose me,
I don't bargain with my pain.
You can keep the cards, baby—
I ain't playing
your game.
[CHANT / OUTRO]
Hold up.
Let go.
Stand tall.
Head home.
Hold up.
Let go.
If it costs your peace—
it's too damn expensive.
Hold up.
Let go.
Stand tall.
Head home.
'Cause a woman who knows her worth
don't have to win the table...
She knows when to leave it.
AYANNA.
Deal.